Monday, July 2, 2012

Bizarre Top 10 Bizarre Mental Disorders


Mental disorders effect millions of people in the world and can lead to years of psychotherapy. In some cases, the psychological problem suffered is extremely rare or bizarre. This is a list of the ten most bizarre mental disorders.
10. Stockholm Syndrome
Hearst
Stockholm syndrome is a psychological response sometimes seen in an abducted hostage, in which the hostage shows signs of sympathy, loyalty or even voluntary compliance with the hostage taker, regardless of the risk in which the hostage has been placed. The syndrome is also discussed in other cases, including those of wife-beating, rape and child abuse.
The syndrome is named after a bank robbery in Stockholm, Sweden, in which the bank robbers held bank employees hostage from August 23 to August 28 in 1973. In this case, the victims became emotionally attached to their victimizers, and even defended their captors after they were freed from their six-day ordeal, refusing to testify against them. Later, after the gang were tried and sentenced to jail, one of them married a woman who had been his hostage.
A famous example of Stockholm syndrome is the story of Patty Hearst, a millionaire’s daughter who was kidnapped in 1974, seemed to develop sympathy with her captors, and later took part in a robbery they were orchestrating.
9. Lima Syndrome
Limamrta
The exact opposite of Stockholm syndrome – this is where the hostage takers become more sympathetic to the plights and needs of the hostages.
It is named after the Japanese embassy hostage crisis in Lima, Peru where 14 members of the Tupac Amaru Revolutionary Movement (MRTA) took hundreds of people hostage at a party at the official residence of Japan’s ambassador to Peru. The hostages consisted of diplomats, government and military officials, and business executives of many nationalities who happened to be at the party at the time. It began on December 17, 1996 and ended on April 22, 1997.
Within a few days of the hostage crisis, the militants had released most of the captives, with seeming disregard for their importance, including the future President of Peru, and the mother of the current President.
After months of unsuccessful negotiations, all remaining hostages were freed by a raid by Peruvian commandos, although one hostage was killed.
8. Diogenes Syndrome
Diogenes
Diogenes was an ancient Greek philosopher, who lived in a wine barrel and promoted ideas of nihilism and animalism. Famously, when he was asked by Alexander the Great what he wanted most in the world, he replied, “For you to get out of my sunlight!”
Diogenes syndrome is a condition characterised by extreme self neglect, reclusive tendencies, and compulsive hoarding, sometimes of animals. It is found mainly in old people and is associated with senile breakdown.
The syndrome is actually a misnomer since Diogenes lived an ascetic and transient life, and there are no sources to indicate that he neglected is own hygiene.
7. Paris Syndrome
Paris
Paris syndrome is a condition exclusive to Japanese tourists and nationals, which causes them to have a mental breakdown while in the famous city. Of the millions of Japanese tourists that visit the city every year, around a dozen suffer this illness and have to be returned to their home country.
The condition is basically a severe form of ‘culture shock’. Polite Japanese tourists who come to the city are unable to separate their idyllic view of the city, seen in such films as Amelie, with the reality of a modern, bustling metropolis.
Japanese tourists who come into contact with, say, a rude French waiter, will be unable to argue back and be forced to bottle up their own anger which eventually leads to a full mental breakdown.
The Japanese embassy has a 24hr hotline for tourists suffering for severe culture shock, and can provide emergency hospital treatment if necessary.
You can read a much more indepth article on Paris syndrome here.
6. Stendhal Syndrome
Stendhal
Stendhal Syndrome is a psychosomatic illness that causes rapid heartbeat, dizziness, confusion and even hallucinations when an individual is exposed to art, usually when the art is particularly ‘beautiful’ or a large amount of art is in a single place. The term can also be used to describe a similar reaction to a surfeit of choice in other circumstances, e.g. when confronted with immense beauty in the natural world.
It is named after the famous 19th century French author Stendhal who described his experience with the phenomenon during his 1817 visit to Florence, Italy in his book Naples and Florence: A Journey from Milan to Reggio.
You can read a much more indepth article on stendhal syndrome here.





5. Jerusalem Syndrome
Jerusalem
The Jerusalem syndrome is the name given to a group of mental phenomena involving the presence of either religiously themed obsessive ideas, delusions or other psychosis-like experiences that are triggered by, or lead to, a visit to the city of Jerusalem. It is not endemic to one single religion or denomination, but has affected Jews and Christians of many different backgrounds.
The condition seems to emerge while in Jerusalem and causes psychotic delusions which tend to dissipate after a few weeks. Of all the people who have suffered this spontaneous psychosis, all have had a history of previous mental illness, or where deemed not to have been ‘well’ before coming to the city.
You can read a much more indepth article on Jerusalem syndrome here.
4. Capgras Delusion
Capgras
The Capgras delusion is a rare disorder in which a person holds a delusional belief that an acquaintance, usually a spouse or other close family member, has been replaced by an identical looking impostor.
It is most common in patients with schizophrenia, although it occur in those with dementia, or after a brain injury.
One case report said the following:
Mrs. D, a 74-year old married housewife, recently discharged from a local hospital after her first psychiatric admission, presented to our facility for a second opinion. At the time of her admission earlier in the year, she had received the diagnosis of atypical psychosis because of her belief that her husband had been replaced by another unrelated man. She refused to sleep with the impostor, locked her bedroom and door at night, asked her son for a gun, and finally fought with the police when attempts were made to hospitalize her. At times she believed her husband was her long deceased father. She easily recognized other family members and would misidentify her husband only.
The paranoia induced by this condition has made it a common tool in science fiction books and films, such as Invasion of the Body Snatchers, Total Recall and The Stepford Wives.
3. Fregoli Delusion
Fregoli
The exact opposite of the Capgras delusion – the Fregoli delusion is a rare disorder in which a person holds a delusional belief that different people are in fact a single person who changes appearance or is in disguise.
The condition is named after the Italian actor Leopoldo Fregoli who was renowned for his ability to make quick changes of appearance during his stage act.
It was first reported 1927 by two psychiatrists who discussed the case study of a 27 year old woman who believed that she was being persecuted by two actors whom she often went to see at the theatre. She believed that these people “pursued her closely, taking the form of people she knows or meets.”
2. Cotard Delusion
Cotard
The Cotard delusion is a rare psychiatric disorder in which a person holds a delusional belief that he or she is dead, does not exist, is putrefying or has lost their blood or internal organs. Rarely, it can include delusions of immortality.
One case study said the following:
[The patient's] symptoms occurred in the context of more general feelings of unreality and being dead. In January, 1990, after his discharge from hospital in Edinburgh, his mother took him to South Africa. He was convinced that he had been taken to hell (which was confirmed by the heat), and that he had died of septicaemia (which had been a risk early in his recovery), or perhaps from AIDS (he had read a story in The Scotsman about someone with AIDS who died from septicaemia), or from an overdose of a yellow fever injection. He thought he had “borrowed my mother’s spirit to show me round hell”, and that he was asleep in Scotland.
It is named after Jules Cotard, a French neurologist who first described the condition, which he called “le délire de négation” (“negation delirium”), in a lecture in Paris in 1880.
1. Reduplicative Paramnesia
Trumanparamnesia
Reduplicative paramnesia is the delusional belief that a place or location has been duplicated, existing in two or more places simultaneously, or that it has been ‘relocated’ to another site. For example, a person may believe that they are in fact not in the hospital to which they were admitted, but an identical-looking hospital in a different part of the country, despite this being obviously false, as one case study reported:
A few days after admission to the Neurobehavioural Center, orientation for time was intact, he could give details of the accident (as related to him by others), could remember his doctors’ names and could learn new information and retain it indefinitely. He exhibited, however, a distinct abnormality of orientation for place. While he quickly learned and remembered that he was at the Jamaica Plain Veterans Hospital (also known as the Boston Veterans Administration Hospital), he insisted that the hospital was located in Taunton, Massachusetts, his home town. Under close questioning, he acknowledged that Jamaica Plain was part of Boston and admitted it would be strange for there to be two Jamaica Plain Veterans Hospitals. Nonetheless, he insisted that he was presently hospitalized in a branch of the Jamaica Plain Veterans Hospital located in Taunton. At one time he stated that the hospital was located in the spare bedroom of his house.
The term ‘reduplicative paramnesia’ was first used in 1903 by the Czechoslovakian neurologist Arnold Pick to describe a condition in a patient with suspected Alzheimer’s disease who insisted that she had been moved from Pick’s city clinic, to one she claimed looked identical but was in a familiar suburb. To explain the discrepancy she further claimed that Pick and the medical staff worked at both locations
Contributor: JT

Sunday, July 1, 2012

Evolutionary Needs [ what do men want vs women ]

Evolutionary Needs

Explanations > Needs > Evolutionary Needs

One of the basic and perhaps most degrading tenets of Darwinian evolution, which was expounded by Richard Dawkins in 'The Selfish Gene', is that we are little more than 'gene machines'. Seen from a fundamentalist evolutionary sense, our sole purpose in life is to propagating our genes, and our needs are honed to relentlessly drive us in this direction.

Staying alive

The first step towards procreation is in staying healthy and alive. This means finding food and shelter and, if necessary, beating other people in order to get it.

Finding a mate

Once we are reasonably secure, the next step towards procreating our genes is finding a mate (and doing the deed, of course).
For this, we again may need to beat off other suitors, or at least impress our potential partners sufficiently that they choose to mate with us rather than our genetic competitors.
The fact that the male is larger than the female is a common sign that humans are naturally a male-dominated society in which dominant males will have more than one mate. The larger male is not only better able to fight off other males, but they are also able to keep women in their place. The force of genetics sadly does not know about Political Correctness.

What men want 

Men and women look for different things in their partners. Men look for women who seem likely to be able to bear plenty of strong children. They thus look for women who:
  • are young and healthy and have many childbearing years ahead of them.
  • have large breasts for feeding their children.
  • have wide hips so they will not have delivery problems.
Men are also easily fooled by symbolism such as red lipstick that reminds them of a full vagina and make-up that fills in the cracks and makes the woman look younger than she is.
Men are not monogamous by nature, and a man will happily have children with many women, as this spreads his seed around and increases the chances of successful propagation of his genes.

What women want

Women are not like men. A major difference is that they are generally left to bring up the children, giving them ten to twenty years of work after their debilitating nine months of pregnancy. They thus look for men who:
  • are strong and powerful and can feed and protect them and their children.
  • are kind and thoughtful and will stay with them.
Women thus will settle for older men who have gained affluence and position in society and who may be less likely to stray. They fight other women not with strength, but with cunning and carefully-placed words (which they also use to great effect with men).
Women are not predisposed toward sleeping around, as the result cannot be hidden from their mates and having too many children may kill them or otherwise reduce the chances of their children surviving.

Nurturing our young

It is no good having children if we then let them die before they can pass their genes on to their children. We thus are motivated to look after our children at least until they can fly the nest. This can be a difficult transition, but nature again has provided the answer in adolescence, where our teenagers push back so hard and often that we are relieved to see them set out on their own!

The next generation

Being a grandparent is a very satisfying thing, as you now have proof that your genes have been passed on and that the responsibility for their propagation can now be handed back to your children whenever you get a bit tired.

So what?

Sex sells. This is because it appeals to this most basic of needs. Use sexy women to sell to men and powerful men to sell to women. Create tension by showing the opposite sex being won away by another person. Show perfect bodies and promise 'you, too, can have a body like this'.
Children sell too. Awaken nurturing instincts by showing their innocence and vulnerability.

See also

Why Do Men Like Big Hips and Big Breasts




Chart on Male Mating Choices
 

The following (including the graphics) is from  

“The Evolution of Human Mating,” by David M. Buss
of the University of Texas, Austin, in 2007: 

“Evolutionary psychology provides a powerful theory for the evolution of standards of female beauty—whatever observable cues are linked with fertility 
(immediate probability of conception) or reproductive value (future reproductive potential) 

will evolve to become part of what humans find attractive in females. 

These include cues to youth, such as full lips, smooth skin, lustrous hair, and a low ratio of hips to waist (WHR). 

They also include cues to health, such as clear skin, absence of sores, white teeth, and symmetrical features. 

Beauty, in short, is in the “psychological adaptations of the beholder,” 
and men value physical appearance because of the wealth of information 
it provides about a woman’s youth, health, and hence reproductive capacity.”
Cues that influence male mating selection 

It’s fun to play with, the evolutionary biology model — this newfound substance, a putty or clay that molds to any texture and shape. The problem, however, with books such as Geoffrey Miller’s The Mating Mind, or even On the Origin of Stories by our own Auckland-based Brian Boyd — books which seek to sculpt poetic subjects using evolutionary materials — is that they can sound so plausible and compelling, so theoretically interesting and eye-opening, and yet, in the end, add so little of beauty to the subject they discuss.
Although most evolutionary biologists continue to focus on “fitness factors” in human mating choices (see, for example, the work of David C. Geary, Jacob Vigil, and Jennifer Byrd-Craven University of Missouri-Columbia), I should note that several years after writing the above stanzas in Kamal, I was pleased to read, in a reputable science publication, a proposition very similar to my own.

Source :
http://voices.yahoo.com/evolution-why-men-prefer-big-breasts-curvy-hips-8965677.html

Saturday, June 30, 2012

Mohammed Mounir - I Adore The Sea English Subtitles

Mohammed Mounir - I Adore The Sea English Subtitles
 



Sunday, June 24, 2012

Carmen Cuesta - You Still Don't Know Me

Melody Gardot - Love Me Like a River Does



Love me like a river does
Cross the sea
Love me like a river does
Endlessly
Love me like a river does
Baby don't rush you're no waterfall

Love me that is all

Love me like a roaring sea
Swirls about
Love me like a roaring sea
Wash me out
Love me like a roaring sea
Baby don't rush you're no waterfall

Love me that is all

Love me like the earth itself

Schiller & Moya Brennan - Falling

http://www.facebook.com/AlternatifHayat 
Schiller & Moya Brennan - Falling 

No matter who finds this reason
when somebody saves this fool
no matter who shakes this hard ground
i know i wont fall down

No matter who holds this moment
then quietly walks this way
no matter who's wounding my heart
i know i won't fall down

Saturday, June 16, 2012

Destinations


You know how it is.
Sometimes we plan a trip to one place
but something takes us to another.
~Rumi

Herbert James Draper (1863 - 1920)

Art style: Classicism
Work: Ulysses and the Sirens (1909)
Technique: Oil on Canvas
Location: Kingston-Upon-Hull, Ferens Art Gallery





I love this island but this island's killing me
Sitting here in silence, man i don't get no peace
The waves upon my shore take me away piece by piece
Gonna leave everything i know

gonna head out towards the sea
Jump off this island gonna head out towards the sea


I love this city man but this city's killing me
Sitting here in all this noise man i don't get no peace
The cars below my street take me away piece by piece
Gonna leave everything i know

gonna head out towards the sea
Gonna leave this city man

gonna head out towards the sea

Get miles away, get miles away, get miles away
Get miles

I love this planet but this planet's killin' me
Sitting here in all this grass man i don't get no weed
The sweat comin' from my pores take me away piece by piece
Gonna leave everything i know gonna head to the galaxy
Gonna leave this planet man, gonna head to the galaxy

Get miles away, get miles away, get miles away,

get miles away, get miles away, get miles away,
get miles away
Get miles

Sunday, June 10, 2012

Laura Branigan - Self Control


http://youtu.be/p8-pP4VboBk
Download MP3

Oh, the night is my world
City light painted girl
In the day nothing matters
It's the night time that flatters
In the night, no control
Through the wall something's breaking
Wearing white as you're walkin'
Down the street of my soul

You take my self, you take my self control
You got me livin' only for the night
Before the morning comes, the story's told
You take my self, you take my self control

Another night, another day goes by
I never stop myself to wonder why
You help me to forget to play my role
You take my self, you take my self control

I, I live among the creatures of the night
I haven't got the will to try and fight
Against a new tomorrow, so I guess I'll just believe it
That tomorrow never comes

A safe night, I'm living in the forest of my dream
I know the night is not as it would seem
I must believe in something, so I'll make myself
believe it
That this night will never go

Oh-oh-oh, oh-oh-oh, oh-oh-oh, oh-oh-oh
Oh-oh-oh, oh-oh-oh, oh-oh-oh, oh-oh-oh

Oh, the night is my world
City light painted girl
In the day nothing matters
It's the night time that flatters

I, I live among the creatures of the night
I haven't got the will to try and fight
Against a new tomorrow, so I guess I'll just believe
it
That tomorrow never knows

A safe night, I'm living in the forest of a dream
I know the night is not as it would seem
I must believe in something, so I'll make myself
believe it
That this night will never go

Oh-oh-oh, oh-oh-oh, oh-oh-oh, oh-oh-oh, oh-oh-oh
You take my self, you take my self control
You take my self, you take my self control
You take my self, you take my self control
You take my self, you take my self control
You take my self, you take my self control
You take my self, you take my self control
You take my self, you take my self control
You take my self, you take my self control
You take my self, you take my self control
You take my self, you take my self control ... [fade out]

Saturday, June 9, 2012

Enrique Iglesias - Heartbeat ft. Nicole Scherzinger




Enrique:
I saw you talking on the phone
I know that you are not alone
But you stealing my heart away
Yeah you stealing my heart away

Nicole:

You're acting like you are on your own
But I saw you standing with a girl, oh
Stop tryn' to steal my heart away
Stop tryn' to steal my heart away

I don't know where we going

I don't know who we are

I can feel your heartbeat

I can feel your heartbeat
(He said to me)
I can feel your heartbeat
(Running through me)
Feel your heartbeat
She said

I can feel your heartbeat

(She said to me)
I can feel your heartbeat
(She said to me)
I can feel your heartbeat
(Running through me)
Heartbeat, feel your heartbeat

Enrique:

Maybe it's the way you move
You got me dreaming like a fool
That I can steal your heart away
I can steal your heart away

Nicole:

No matter what it is your think
I'm not the kind of girl to blink
And give my heart away
Stop tryin' steal my heart away

I don't know where we going

I don't know who we are

I can feel your heartbeat

(He said to me)
I can feel your heartbeat
(He said to me)
I can feel your heartbeat
(Running through me)
Heartbeat, feel your heartbeat
She said

I can feel your heartbeat

(She said to me)
I can feel your heartbeat
(She said to me)
I can feel your heartbeat
(Running through me)

Both:

Stop stealing my heart away
Stop stealing my heart away
Stop stealing my heart away
You're stealing my heart away
I don't know where we going
I don't know who we are
It feels like we are floating
Right upon the stars

Enrique:

I can feel it, I can feel it, I can feel it
I can feel it, I can..

I can feel your heartbeat

(He said to me)
I can feel your heartbeat
(He said to me)
I can feel your heartbeat
(Running through me)
Your heartbeat, feel your heartbeat
She said

I can feel your heartbeat

(She said to me)
I can feel your heartbeat
(She said to me)
I can feel your heartbeat
(Running through me)
Heartbeat, feel your heart beat

Stop stealing my heart away

(Tell it to me girl)
Stop stealing my heart away
(Give it to me boy)
Stop stealing my heart away
(Say it to me girl)
You're stealing my heart away

Stop stealing my heart away

(I can feel your heartbeat)
Stop stealing my heart away
(I can feel your heartbeat)
Stop stealing my heart away
(I can feel your heartbeat)
Your heartbeat, your heartbeat