Sunday, September 23, 2012

11 Types of Female Orgasm


11 Types of Female Orgasm


Did you know that women can experience many different types of orgasm ? How would it feel to be such a good lover that you know more about her body than she does ?
Interesting question: how much do the vast majority of women know about this exciting subject ? Not much at all, let me tell you. And I had hundreds of women answering this question. Later, I was teaching those women things about their bodies they never knew. And everyone was very happy afterwards !
I don’t even talk about asking men this question. As a man, you are lucky if you know that women can have an orgasm at all. But, of course, there are a few men around who know a lot about this. How do I know ? I learned from them. The rest of male population is predominantly ignorant, and feel quite OK about it.
What’s the origin of this problem ? The answer is simple, yet unexpected at the same time: there is strong fear of female sexuality in our society. But I digress. Let’s get back to the subject.
Note to women:
Most women only know two of the types of orgasm their bodies are capable of. (Whether or not they have actually experienced them is another question). And this is taking place in the post-Feminist world, ladies. Looks like you were cheated.
I shall tell you how this happened: you took back many of your rights, and this was great. Nevertheless, you mixed liberation with good portion of hostility.
Metrosexuality has become a fashionable word. But in fact, there are very few men around to teach women about the wonder called the female body. Ripping off men's masculinity has been a great success ... it’s good for the economy, but women are missing quite a lot.
Note to men:
So few men are good lovers. Ask any woman and she will confirm this. Becoming a Sex Master starts from knowing exactly how to satisfy her. This includes precise knowledge of how to give her an orgasm. And this requires going a bit deeper and finding out what types of orgasms there are.
Let’s add some love and knowledge to the world of relationships and sexuality. Love dissolves fear.Knowledge dissolves ignorance.

Let’s begin with one orgasm you most probably know:
1. The Clitoral Orgasm:
This orgasm is the result of clitoral stimulation. Intensely pleasurable feelings start within the clitoris and send waves of pleasure throughout the body.
The clitoris is the most senstive area of the female body, being one of the most nerve rich. If you are a guy, imagine all the nerve endings in the penis poured into an area as small as a pea.
The clitoris is so important to receiving pleasure that sexual arousal is always felt there on some level. That is why the clitoris is so responsive to certain kinds of touch.
However, it’s not the same for everyone. Its sensitivity varies greatly from woman to woman. Some women may prefer a light touch. Others may require much stronger stimulation. For some women, it’s so sensitive that touching the clitoral glans directly is often uncomfortable or irritating.
After an orgasm, the clit may become extremely sensitive, to the point of being painful. As a good lover, you should know that, and give your woman a few minutes of rest.
This kind of female orgasm can be given:
Orally. My advice to those women who complain that their partners have no idea of how to give it: “Lady, let your partner do it for you, but guide him as you would guide a blind man driving a bus on a busy street.”
With a hand. Always use her own natural lubrication or a water-based lube.
With sex toys. Use lubrication here too !
How does this orgasm feel to a woman ?
A clitoral orgasm can be very intense, but many women describe it as “less deep” than others. Nevertheless, it is extremely pleasurable, and good clitoral stimulation adds a lot to your sex life.
2. The Vaginal Orgasm:
This kind of female orgasm begins in the vagina and either stays focused in the pelvic and lower stomach areas, or spreads from there. The uterus, pelvic muscles, and even anus may begin to contract. Those contractions are quite strong, and may actually push out anything that was stimulating the vagina.
This kind of orgasm takes longer to achieve, and rhythmic thrusting is often the best way to get there. A good lover will communicate with his woman and find out the best position for her to reach it.
A Sex Master will take care not to ejaculate too quickly. The golden rule here is, “Ladies always come first.”
How does this kind of orgasm feel to a woman ?
Many women describe it as “less intense” than a clitoral orgasm, but more deeply felt. They feel it as a pressure that slowly grows and explodes deep inside the vagina. This, of course, varies greatly from person to person.
3. The G-Spot Orgasm
This orgasm begins in the G-Spot, and may stay there while climaxing, or it may powerfully explode through the whole body.
How does it happen ?
During sexual arousal, the tissue surrounding the urethra becomes engorged with blood and the Paraurethral / Skenes glands produce and fill with prostatic fluid. This area on the front wall of the vagina becomes that same mysterious and sensitive spot … the G-Spot. In fact, this process is very similar to male arousal. As a result, the urethral sponge becomes “erect,” and if you touch it, it feels firm. In other words, this is a kind of female hard-on.

The only difference is that it all happens inside a woman’s vagina.
How to reach it:
There are different ways of stimulating the G-Spot. Rhythmic pushing or circular friction movements are the best for achieving this kind of orgasm. I use a lot of special Tantric sensual massage techniques for stimulating this area of woman’s body.
This orgasm may also lead to female ejaculation (see the next section on squirting).
How does this kind of female orgasm feel to a woman ?
This kind of female orgasm takes some time to build. Many women describe it as a very special, deeply sensual pleasure, which builds until their whole lower stomach and pelvic area explodes. Often, they are carried away for quite some time by the powerful wave of euphoric energy, and don't even realize where they are and what is going on around them. I am serious. I see it happening all the time.
4. Squirting Orgasm (Female Ejaculation)
This kind of female orgasm is so profound that it deserves a separate book of its own.
In short, this powerful orgasm is achieved by using ancient Tantric techniques. It releases negative emotions and fills a woman with light, euphoric energy and a feeling of fulfillment and peace. Squirting makes other kinds of female orgasm look pale in comparison.
This kind of female orgasm builds a very deep bond between a woman and her partner. This is the most intimate and delightful thing your woman can share with you.
Note for single women: if you don’t have a partner or just want to experience this kind of orgasm on your own, here is the good news ... it is perfectly possible !
5. The A–Spot Orgasm (The Anterior Fornix Orgasm)
This kind of female orgasm is achieved by stimulation of an area deep in the vagina (about 7-10 cm, or 3-4”) on the front wall. It is the same wall where the G-Spot is situated. In other words, this is a patch of sensitive tissue at the inner front end of the vaginal tube, between the cervix and the bladder.
This kind of female orgasm can be given:
With a hand. Use the same technique you use for stimulating the G-Spot, but in this case, go as deep as your fingers can reach. Simply said, you just try to “scoop it out” with your middle finger.
Using sex toys.
Basic missionary position, where a man is short-thrusting very deeply during intercourse.
Many women find the feeling incredibly pleasurable, while some may not like it at all. Keep this in mind when experimenting.
After an orgasm, the A-Spot does not become too sensitive, and you can easily continue stimulation, bringing your partner to new heights of pleasure.
Again, communication is the key here, so always ask your partner if she is comfortable with what you are doing.
Many women describe this orgasm as a kind of soft electricity bringing them to a sharp, erotic climax. A few women find this orgasm very similar to the G-spot, while some find it closer to an extremely strong vaginal orgasm.
In any case, your lover will love the fact that you even know about it.
6. The Deep Spot Orgasm (The Posterior Fornix Orgasm)
This kind of female orgasm is achieved by stimulating the area located almost all the way back in the deepest part of the back wall of the vagina, just before the cervix.
Direct stimulation of the Deep Spot can cause very intense orgasms. Some women may feel as if they are having anal sex. This kind of female orgasm get responses like: “I never felt like this before,” or, “What are you doing ? It’s amazing !” This particular area is not widely known, so very few women have ever experienced those sensations.
This kind of female orgasm can be given with a hand, using “Come Hither” motions. Use both long and short strokes, and you can even use two fingers if you like.
Note: first find out what kind of feeling your partner has when you touch her cervix. Some women enjoy it a lot, and some do not like it at all.
7. The U-Spot Orgasm
This kind of female orgasm comes from the stimulation of a small area of sensitive erectile tissue located just above and on either side of the urethral opening. It is in the small area between the urethra and the vagina. If this region is gently caressed with the finger, the tongue, or the tip of the penis, there is a powerful erotic response.
How do you treat it ? The same way you treat the clitoris.
Almost any woman can experience all of the above listed female orgasms. A few more orgasms are not so common. They are:
8. The Breast Orgasm
This kind of female orgasm occurs during a peak of stimulation to the breasts. The nipples connect to nerves in the female genitals, and many women feel a direct connection with their clitoris when their nipples are stimulated.
Many women feel increased sexual excitement when their nipples are stimulated, but not all of them can experience the breast orgasm. This depends very much on how sensitive their nipples are.
9. The Oral Orgasm
This orgasm can be experienced by women who are very sensitive orally. The mouth plays a big role in the sexual nervous system. The mouth orgasm can take place during any sensual oral activity such as kissing, licking, sucking, or performing oral sex.
Many women describe the excitement as beginning in their lips and then spreading from the mouth to the genitals and all over the body.
10. The Skin Orgasm
This orgasm can be brought about by massaging certain areas of female body that are not directly connected to the sexual nervous system. Examples include orgasms experienced by many women during ordinary massage sessions, face treatments at the cosmetologist, and so on.
11. The Mental Orgasm
This kind of female orgasm can happen during visual and auditory stimulation. Examples of such stimulation are movies, videos, or sexual behavior exhibited in front of others. Women become so turned on that they can actually experience an orgasm from this excitement alone

Gustav Klimt



In 1897 Klimt led a group of young Austrian artists and architects who resigned from the Vienna Künstlerhaus (Artists' house), the exhibition venue dominated by established academic artists. Calling themselves the "Secession," they set out not only to revolutionize the visual arts, but all of aesthetic life. 

By 1898 the Secessionists had begun their own periodical, Ver Sacrum ("Sacred Spring"), and erected their own exhibition hall, where they showcased their own art and brought international avant-garde art to Vienna. During the early years of the Secession, Klimt's style and philosophical outlook underwent defining change.

A New Style

Klimt's talent as a graphic designer was especially evident in the early years of the Secession. He was then eschewing three-dimensional space and developing an increasingly linear and planar mode of representation, inspired by the linearity and raw power of Greek vase painting and Japanese woodcuts.
Fish Blood / Klimt
Fish Blood is Klimt's greatest work of graphic design and a seminal artistic statement for him. Its imagery embodies Klimt's metaphysical view of life as endless floating form. Cropped on all four sides, the composition flows diagonally upward, having no beginning or end. The figures seem ethereal, with their long hair becoming one with their aqueous medium. The subject matter of erotic female nudes floating through water or space would remain a consuming interest for Klimt. 

Stylistically, the drawing above is characterized by a soft focus, which reflects Symbolism's influence on Klimt. He shows a pretty young woman from a close vantage point, as she relaxes on a couch and gazes languidly outward. Her head and the top of the couch occupy nearly the whole of the picture plane. Her ovoid face with its cloud of hair is at once captivating and vague and is further set off by the high collar of her dress. The flat couch back accentuates the physical and psychological barrier between the viewer and this dreamy beauty.

The Faculty Paintings

The new Vienna University opened in 1884. Klimt and his colleague Franz Matsch, with whom he had worked at the New Burgtheater, were commissioned to make the ceiling paintings for the university's grand reception hall. Matsch was to paint the centerpiece, The Triumph of Light over Darkness, and the corner painting representing the faculty of Theology. Klimt was to execute the three other Faculty Paintings representing PhilosophyMedicine, andJurisprudence.
Oil sketch for 'Medicine' / Klimt
Floating Woman with a Hanging Arm and an Outstretched Arm / Klimt

No longer able to work in straightforwardly representational terms, Klimt developed a cosmic vision for these paintings of floating figures delivered up to a fate that was out of their control. He developed a radical approach to the nude, rejecting the fleshy three-dimensional beauty of the classical nude in favor of what may be called "nakedness," pointing to the elemental isolation and stark realities of the human situation. Scandalized by the nudity, the university rejected Klimt's paintings, and they were never hung.

In the oil sketch for Medicine, above left, Klimt placed Hygieia, goddess of medicine, at the bottom. Behind her is the stream of suffering humanity containing figures, including Death at the top right. To the left is a floating female nude, while a muscular man shown from behind extends his arm to support her. The oil sketch shows traces of Klimt's earlier academic style in the curvaceous forms of the figures and the dramatic lighting of the stream of humanity.

The floating woman preoccupied Klimt as he worked and reworked Medicine in drawings, such as the one above, right. His main interest was in streamlining her form so that she seemed to levitate effortlessly in a dream state, which is emphasized by his trailing out the lines and omitting her feet and hands. This floating woman is at once seductive and mysterious, sensual and yet unreal.

Tuesday, September 18, 2012

FROM THE A-SPOT TO G-SPOT: UNDERSTANDING ORGASMS

FROM THE A-SPOT TO G-SPOT: UNDERSTANDING ORGASMS

A veteran researcher translates science into sexual healing in her new book, The Orgasm Answer Guide

BY VIRGINIA VITZTHUM JUNE 4, 2010


Orgasms
Len Lagrua

Best known for popularizing and naming the G-spot (after the researcher Ernst Gräfenberg, who first wrote about it in 1950), Beverly Whipple, PhD, has spent more than 30 years studying pleasure—largely, she says, "in order to validate women's experience." Written in collaboration with three other sexperts, Whipple's sixth book, the new Orgasm Answer Guide, is exhaustive, sweetly sex-positive, and funny in that unflappable science-nerd way: "One might wonder about the duration of the perceptual orgasm in a male pig...." (Well, you will when you find out that male pigs' breath paralyzes female pigs!)Answer Guide touches on subjects Whipple has researched for decades, including women with spinal-cord injuries, many of whom thought they'd never come again. About one such experiment, Whipple says: "We had the injured woman self-stimulate her cervix, her G-spot and her breasts. (Her breasts were above her injury.) She had 12 orgasms. She cried; I cried; it was very moving." The book also covers "nongenital" orgasms, including "thinking off" climaxes sparked just by mental imagery (plus those generated by prayer, meditation, childbirth, and "stimulation of lip, nipple, shoulder, or toe"). Other fun facts: An orgasm burns only two or three calories; men ejaculate on average after two to 10 minutes of intercourse; a woman's risk of breast cancer is lower the more sex partners she's had; and, perhaps best of all, the G-spot may have some company down there. The A-spot (located between the G-spot and the cervix) and the U-spot (just above and around the urethra) may also have pleasure generating potential.
ELLE : What made you choose a career in sex research?
Beverly Whipple: A student asked me in a nursing class I was teaching in the early '70s, "What can a man do sexually after he has a heart attack?" The board of trustees of the program said I couldn't talk about it. So I quit my job and went to graduate school. I got a master's in counseling, a master's in nursing, and a PhD in psychobiology.
ELLE : What do most women ask you?
BW: My research into the G-spot came from women who ejaculated and said, "Am I normal?" Every woman is unique; we have to be able to feel good about what brings us pleasure. You can't enjoy it if you think something's wrong with you.
ELLE : Does everyone have a G-spot?
BW: I don't know. We studied 400 women and they all did, but not everybody liked it being stimulated. One interesting finding is that self-stimulation of the G-spot produces a strong pain-blocking effect. Just
putting pressure on the area elevates pain thresholds—but not tactile thresholds— about 40 percent; with pleasurable stimulation, the threshold rises between 80 and 100 percent.
ELLE : I'd never heard of a cervical orgasm. Can anybody have one?
BW: We can't say for sure. Some women describe their orgasms from different forms of stimulation—clitoral, G-spot, vaginal, cervical—as feeling different to them. Our study of cervical orgasms started with women with spinal-cord injuries, but then some women without injuries said, "Oh, I've never felt that before," when they rhythmically pushed on their cervix, and the same areas of the brain were activated in women with and without injury. It helps prove that there are many nerve pathways that can help a woman experience orgasm— that orgasm isn't just a reflex.
ELLE : You tell people not to obsess about finding the G-spot or having simultaneous orgasms.
BW: We don't use the words reach or achieve with orgasm in the book; we use experience. You shouldn't strive for this or that, just enjoy yourself. Women can have pleasure and satisfaction without orgasm. The last chapter of our 1982 book on the G-spot was called "The Best Is the Enemy of the Good."